"I'm not choosing to do anything, I'm just choosing
to exist and see what happens, day by day." (x)
Learn To Be Alone & Learn To Love YOURSELF
Date your own damn self. You do not need someone hanging around you all day in order to feel beautiful or wanted. You don’t need a live in fantasy of a Taylor Swift video to make you happy with yourself. It does not work. You’ll get bored by the fantasy because you’ll realize that you’ve become emotionally dependent on someone else to validate you. This means that if they move on or cheat on you, you’ll feel completely dismembered because you’ll have lost your validation piece.
You need to work on validating yourself. This means that you take time to loosen up on the grips you have on your self worth. You can do this by identifying where all of your self hate comes from and CHALLENGING it. You have an amazing body, there’s only one of you, and your personality is AMAZING if you’ll only give it the chance.
Let relationships happen naturally. We personally believe that the key relationship you have that’ll determine the rest will be the relationship you have with yourself.
Some food for thought. There is also no shame, NONE in choosing to be on your own for the rest of your life. It means that the BEST person that can please you will be you. If you take time learning how to woo and please your SELF, imagine how wonderful life would be.